The Misunderstood Love of God

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Summary

Everyone cherishes the love of God, yet it is the most commonly misunderstood truth about Him. Love is one of God’s attributes, not the whole of His being, and it is misread whenever it is cut off from His holiness, justice and truth. His attributes never compete: “hindi natin pwedeng chapchapin si God.” The study traced what that misreading produces. God’s love is diluted into sentimentalism and emotionalism, and God is treated as a divine therapist who exists to validate our feelings. When feeling becomes the measure of spirituality, it breeds instability and self-deception. Emotion is God’s gift, but healthy Christian affection is shaped by truth, directed by the will and proven in obedience.

Four misconceptions were answered. God’s love is not approval of sin: holy love hates sin because sin destroys what God loves. It is not opposed to His wrath and justice; the same God speaks in Psalm 103 and at the cross, where love, justice and wrath meet. It does not promise a life without suffering, and it includes the Father’s discipline (Hebrews 12). God’s love is unmerited (Romans 5:8), but calling it “unconditional” easily turns into presumption, because enjoying it is bound up with faith, obedience and abiding in Christ. Its supreme revelation is not an embrace but the cross, Christ’s bloody, substitutionary sacrifice. God is kind to all, yet His redeeming love is applied to those who believe. And being loved, we are commanded to love God and our neighbor, our enemies included.

Essential truths

  1. Love is one of God’s attributes and is never separated from His holiness, justice and truth.
  2. Biblical love confronts, convicts and calls to repentance; it never approves of sin.
  3. God’s wrath and His discipline are not the opposite of His love but its holy expression.
  4. The cross is the supreme revelation of God’s love: Christ’s substitutionary death for sinners.
  5. Being loved by God makes us responsible to love Him and our neighbor, even our enemies.

Encouragement and challenge

Test what you call God’s love by Scripture, not by how a service makes you feel. Cheap views of God’s love produce passivity; biblical love produces worship, repentance and costly discipleship.

This week, forgive the person you have been holding a grudge against, and pray for those who curse you.

Reference verses

  • Psalm 103:8-14
  • Hebrews 12
  • Romans 5:8
  • John 14:21, 23
  • John 15:9-10
  • Psalm 145:9
  • Matthew 5:45
  • Ephesians 5:25
  • John 13:1

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